Rejection
- Noor Baig
- Jan 9, 2021
- 1 min read
People may be actively rejected when others say negative remarks or voice negative views about them or tell them that their presence is unwanted.
Or it can be passively done when people pay less attention to them or may ignore them.
The well known silent treatment, or others can be when someone is purposely been left out or their opinions are discounted.
It is rarely heard that someone got succeeded in the very first time while sharing their feelings or opinions. Where the majority has never succeeded in love or in life or in any other experience, without facing rejection in the first place.
We all have been to it.
Rejection comes with the feelings of loneliness, being unwanted or hopelessness.
To deal with it, our mind plays a role in a multiple way. "Fixed mindsets" seeing themselves as fixed to a state, may find it hard to move out of it, to bring themselves out of the hopeless situation. "Flexible mindsets" those having a flexible personality would tend to see things as they can be altered or developed.
They see rejection as an opportunity to Grow and change.
Growth comes with inner strength and acceptance, paying attention to the inner self would help to bring the change.
Whenever something bad happens our inner self tells us that ➡"Didn't I tell you about that? Or ➡"Didn't I warn you before that?
But we all still take risks in life and take steps.
On every single Rejection we get a new chance to Grow.
To Grow in a better way to Grow in the right way.
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